For some time now, Jenny has been on the decline. She refuses her food more often and sometimes throws up. She sleeps longer and deeper. She is losing her sight and her hearing. She gets diarrhea and has nocturnal accidents. When she’s awake, she barks at everyone and everything invading her space. Lately, she’s been limping.
Worried that her pancreatitis and kidney failure are worsening, I called Dr. Black who made a house call. She found that Jenny now weighs only 8.9 lbs (a loss of over a pound since her last visit}. And her kidney blood levels are rising.
Remembering losses of other furry companions, and wanting time to prepare myself, I asked Dr. Black if Jenny was nearing the end of her illnesses. I was stunned to learn that I probably have only about six more months to enjoy her company.
Funny, how the revelation I will soon lose my best friend changes my experience of her. Now I live in the moment, holding her, stroking her, enjoying our closeness
Tonight, as the long day fades into night, I watch TV from my bed as Jenny lays her head on my lap and sleeps. I gently stroke her back, letting her warmth soak into the mattress and my heart..